Dear 2009...

Dear 2009,

Aside from 2003-2004, I have never had a more challenging year. I guess the challenges are necessary for growth..... I guess. However, years like you are so uncomfortable. I will be glad to see you go to be truthful. Good thing I can always fall back on faith. To deal with you, I've had to load up on faith. Good thing I have a circle of God fearing women friends in THE GIRLS, who remind each other of their respective potential, promise and purpose.

Several of THE GIRLS suffered severe financial setbacks. Some lost their jobs, some quit their jobs, some had to take major pay cuts. To be fair, I guess it's necessary to note that some of THE GIRLS got jobs paying them more money than they have ever made. A couple even got promotions. I guess there is a silver lining.... I guess.

Many of THE GIRLS lost dear family members to death, including grandmothers and aunts. However, we experienced the birth of one of the most darling little girls we have ever seen. That's a blessing.

More than a few of THE GIRLS have had to end romantic relationships and put their foot down regarding how they are treated. The good news is a couple of us have finally allowed ourselves to receive the love God would want us to accept from a man.

I honestly don't think any of THE GIRLS were able to take the same number of trips to our desired destinations due to the economy and new jobs. The good news is those destinations aren't going anywhere, so we have something to look forward to. I mean, I was able to travel to Phoenix, Boston, New Orleans, Las Vegas, Charlotte and other cities I had never visited in the US. It could have been worse huh ? We could have been only relegated to East Orange, NJ.

All in all, you, my dear 2009 sucked. Compared to the other years that offered prosperity, fun, stability, no worrying, etc., you pale in comparison. The good news is, you will still serve a purpose and I will gladly step on your back to get all that is in store for me and MY GIRLS in 2010 and beyond.

Hooolllllaaaaa !!!!

- PARTY GIRL