You Live Where ??

I have NEVER had a geographically desirable boo....NE-VUH !!

When I lived in North Memphis, he lived in Frayser.

When I lived on the Northern part of Tallahasse, he lived on the other side off of Tennessee Street.

When I lived in Houston, they lived in Dallas, Orlando, Cleveland, Memphis, etc. During my years in Law School, I actually preferred it that way. The further away, the better ! I had my space, and when he came to visit or vice versa, I knew the entire weekend or week was all mine.....then he would leave and I would get my space back.

Once I moved to New York....same shit. I lived in Harlem, he lived in Brooklyn and/or New Jersey. Once I moved to New Jersey, I had boos in Harlem and Long Island. I would make declarations that I would actually attempt to fellowship and meet men in Jersey, but who does that ? Jersey men are NOT desirable to me.

It's the same thing for THE GIRLS. We all live nowhere near our significant others.

FLIRTY GIRL is in Soho, her boo is in Weehawken, NJ.

SUNSHINE GIRL is in Harlem, her boo is in Queens.....OH how she detests Queens.

FASHIONISTA GIRL is in Harlem, her man is in Brooklyn...when he goes home.

PARTY GIRL lives in Jersey and NGF lives in Long Island. Or as they say out here "On" Long Island.

Needless to say, having a car...or your man having a car is damn near necessary.

I was having a discussion with one of our MFs. He was telling me how many men he knows rent cars by the hour a/k/a Zip Cars to travel to another borough for some lovin. My response: "HAIL NAW" !!

If a man is renting a car by the hour, that means he is on a deadline. Who wants loving on a deadline. Not me !!